Sunday Reflections: Sitting around the kitchen table.....learnin' 'bout love!
" We are one big family of people, trying to make our way through the unfolding puzzle of life. We are all connected to one another in the heart. Connecting with the ultimate source of love is possible through discovering the hidden power in your heart."
Sara Paddison, Hidden Power of the Heart
I stood in my kitchen this afternoon after shucking some ears of corn, cutting off the kernels and scraping the cob. As I put the knife up to a cob, without notice,
without even knowing what I was doing....
It happened....
the visual of corn coming off in rolls,
of juice spraying my arms and eyes,
the sweet smell of freshness....
I thought of the person who planted the seed, picked the corn,
thought of the water that fell from the sky and the sun that helped the seed birth forth into delicious wonder....
and
suddenly
in
a flash of time,
there I sat....
at that old gray and white metal table
in the center of my great-grandmother's kitchen....
it was a warm memory
hot corn piled high, the little box radio playing on the country station,
granite buckets to capture the kernels we were cutting off...
mom, my little sister and my fatma......
fatma was the motherly matriarch
who felt it was her job to pass on the secret family freezing and canning recipe...
she ran the show...
I was never allowed to cut the corn off the cob--that was for fatma and mama--
my sister and I had the unglamorous job of taking the cobs that they had cut the kernels off of and use a butter knife to scrape the remaining kernel and juice out into the granite pail holding the delectable goodness.
I was only there in my mind for a few minutes today...
but it was a good visit...
a refreshing memory of sort...
a reminder of
days when life was slow
and
families
sat around the table
and
took time to know each other,
laugh with each other and
tell ancestral stories of days gone by....
I cherish the memory of my fatma's table...
lots happened there...
wonderful food...like baked ham, home grown green beans and the best
German chocolate cake I've ever eaten
was cooked and served by the hands of a woman
born in 1900.
I loved her deeply and wonder where I'd have been had I not sat at that table in her kitchen..
It was on that kitchen table that she kept her tattered bible with a piece of an envelope marking her place every day. She'd sit there first thing with her steaming coffee and I'd watch her read through her thick glasses and see her lips moving as her eyes passed through the lines of the passages.
I guess, I came to understand the depths of God's love
right there
at that metal table,
I was fed, I was nurtured,
I was taught
and
corrected there
and
most importantly
I was loved
into the depths of
the wonder of family and faith and love.
I'm thankful today for a corn cob moment
that
invited me
to travel once again
to a place
that holds cherished memories...
thankful
for
juice and kernels and wonder....
thankful
for
a visit into a story of my past.
hope all of you
have
a wonderful
Sunday memory as well..
or that you are creating your on type of ritual..
where hearts connect,
love vibrates
and
faith is infused.
Hugs and Blessings...

3 Comments:
Wonderful reflections ~ I agree ~ My maternal grandmother had a major influence on me as did a Great grandmother that I only knew for a short time ( I still feel the love she gave) and the love from my maternal grandmother ~ Also, thanks for telling me to go out and buy the car ~ LOL ~ Will wait till Spring and then decide ~ It would be sports coupe ~ possibly without the convertible ~ still thinking as you can see. Sending hugs and namaste, Carol ^_^
My maternal grandmother passed when I was in the third grade, then my grandpa a few years later. Instead of having her in person, people have shared story after story with me of my grandparents. They lived close to railroad tracks. During the Depression, bums would get off at my grandparents. Grandma always made sure they got something warm in their bellies, something for the road, and a clean pair of socks. I guess they knew they were receiving socks of another visitor...only laundered. When the church burned on Christmas Eve of 1948, G'ma got the community of faith together the next morning and assured them that "From the Ashes We Shall Arise" G'ma was an only child, but my grandpa was one of five boys whose dad was one of four...so there were a bunch of Edmondsons around and it was the Edmondsons who told me all the stories. My paternal grandmother...well....she was a bit different and she didn't live close. ~ Smiling~ as I think of even more stories. Thanks for priming the pump of memories.
Warm, nourishing memories. Thanks for sharing this with us. These moments do define us, no matter what changes about our lives and our relationships. The warmth of these moments gives us strength for a great many things. Enjoyed your post.
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