how to be sexy hot.....

A great figure or physique is nice, but it's self-confidence that makes someone really sexy.
Vivica Fox

 

I'm too sexy for my..

too sexy for my..

too sexy for my..

 

was the song I heard playing through my head as I begin this blog post

I'm too sexy for myself...

too sexy for myself...

too sexy for myself....

too sexy hot..

While I have not recieved letters requesting

advice or really any requests

for "tips for hotness"

I decided that it was time

that

sexy hot mama

decided to share

a few of her sexy hot tips....

Maya Angelou who has always inspired me

wrote the following...

"Pretty women wonder where my secret lies. 
I'm not cute or built to suit a fashion model's size 
But when I start to tell them, 
They think I'm telling lies. 
I say, 
It's in the reach of my arms 
The span of my hips, 
The stride of my step, 
The curl of my lips. 
I'm a woman 
Phenomenally. 
Phenomenal woman, 
That's me. "

Now just like me

she

has never been the skinniest

of women

and having had the priviledge of seeing her

stride across the stage one night in her turban with her cane

it really didn't matter what she was on the outside

her sexy hotness

came from a well

deep inside

a well that had stored both pain and happiness

it came from

knowing who she was

where she had been

and

from her confidence of taking the next step

even if she didn't know where it would lead.

I have never been the most beautiful girl in the classroom

or the skinniest or the sexiest

but

over the years

I have come to believe

that

I am truely a sexy hot mama...the total package (Big daddy is the luckiest you know)

I appreciate my body

the way it holds me up,

even in my clumsy kind of way,

I can't walk well in heels

and

fixing my hair---

well there is a reason

my beautification specialist

gives me a messed up look

-cause that is what it always is--

messed up

now I just look like I meant for it to be....

On most days

from deep in side

the well of my being

there resides a peace

a joy

a wonderful knowledge

that

the experiences of all

my day to day travels have granted...

it gives me experiential intutuion,

a spiritual strand of knowing that I don't understand how life works, or where the life force comes from

it just is

and

woven

together

in a
splish splash

kind of well

all

rolled up

it gives me

the

off color humoristic

approach

to singing

I'm too sexy

or I'm sexy and I know it.

Sexy hotness

comes from

accepting who you are (who I am)

it comes from

finding there is no need to

change my colors

depending on who I am with

--even though---

I do have to occasionally

hold the sexy hot humor back

keep the sexy hot passion

at bay

that too is a skill

knowing just when to pull the sexy hotness out in all it's glory.

Monday morning is here

a new day  has begun

don't feel so sexy hot today...

fake

it

until you make it..

sexy hot

is a state of mind

and

my mind says it

"i'm too sexy for myself"

Go forth into the world

being all you can be

and

yes

even you guys can be full of sexy hotness

....

hold your head high,

walk with confidence

look folks in the eye

smile

and

embrace every moment as if it was the last

now

that there...

that is sexy hotness at its greatest...

go on

and

have a sexy hot day.......

blessings

the radical rambler